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Today, we’re talking about something that brings so much joy, laughter, and support to our lives that is good friends! The Bible has so much to say about the importance of friendship, and we’re going to explore that today. Because let’s be honest—where would we be without those people who lift us up?"
To kick things off, let’s read Proverbs 17:17: “A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need.” What a powerful reminder that good friends are more than just people we have fun with, they are those who walk with us through life’s ups and downs.
We all need friends who are there when we need them, but also friends who challenge us, laugh with us, and encourage us to grow. Today, we’re talking about what makes a good friend and how we can be better friends ourselves!
Good friends are the ones who will be there to pick you up when you fall, encourage you when you feel down, and remind you of who you are in Christ when you forget. We were never meant to go through life alone—God created us for community.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.” This verse shows us that friendship isn’t just about fun times; it’s about having someone who has your back.
It’s kind of like having a built-in cheerleader for life. And the best part? You get to be someone’s cheerleader too!
Think about the people in your life who have been there for you in tough times. Send them a little text today to say thank you. Good friends are gifts from God, and it’s important to let them know how much they mean to us.
What makes a good friend? It’s Loyalty, honesty, encouragement, and being willing to speak the truth in love. Sometimes, a good friend is the one who tells you what you need to hear, even if it’s not what you want to hear.
Proverbs 18:24 says, “There are ‘friends’ who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.” This verse speaks to the difference between casual friendships and those deep, loyal friendships that truly make a difference.
A good friend is someone who sticks by you, even when things aren’t easy. They don’t just show up for the fun moments; they’re there when life gets hard. These kinds of friendships are rare and precious.
It’s like having someone who knows all your quirks but loves you anyway, someone who’s there to laugh with you and cry with you. That’s a real friend.
Over the years I have a had a few friends who have stuck by me through all my messes, and I am so thankful for them because God brought them into my life. I think any relationship that God brings together are important. God knows what we need and who we need to help us through this life.
We often talk about the importance of having good friends, but today I also want to challenge you to think about how you can be a good friend to others. Are you someone who’s there for your friends when they need you? Do you encourage them, listen to them, and love them sacrificially?
John 15:13 says, “There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” This shows us the ultimate example of friendship—Jesus Himself. He modeled sacrificial love, showing us what it means to be a true friend.
Being a good friend doesn’t mean you have to do grand gestures, the small things that matter most. A kind word, a listening ear, or just showing up when someone needs you. Those are the things that build strong, lasting friendships.
And let’s be honest—sometimes, being a good friend just means sharing your fries when your friend ‘wasn’t hungry’ but then eats half of yours!
Let’s end with this verse from Proverbs 27:9: “The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense.” True friends offer counsel, encouragement, and love that refreshes our souls.
Take some time today to reach out to a friend who has been there for you. Let them know how much they mean to you. And think about how you can be that kind of friend for someone else. We all need those deep, meaningful connections.
As you go about your day, remember that good friends are a treasure, and with God’s love, we can all be the kind of friends who make a difference in each other’s lives.